Speaking to a Healthcare Provider

It’s okay to have questions around your social transition. Speaking to your Primary Care Provider and/or Mental Health Provider is a good place to start seeking support. You may be seeking support to access gender-specific medical services or information, or mental health support.

Your Primary Care Provider may begin by asking you some general questions related to your social transition goals. It can be helpful to start thinking about some of these before you go in for your appointment. - Remember, it’s okay to not have all the answers!

  • What name and pronouns are you currently using (and if these differ across settings, how so?)
  • What are your goals for transition?
  • How do you want to be perceived in terms of your gender?
  • What are your current top priorities?
  • What are your future goals?
  • Have you taken any steps to change your outward appearance to make it more closely match your identity?
  • Do you bind, tuck or use other gender affirming gear?

Your Primary Care Provider will also want to gain an understanding of your support system and may ask the following questions:

  • Do you live alone/with others?
  • Do you work/go to school?
  • Who makes up your support system?
  • Do you have a partner/spouse/dependents?
  • Have you talked to your support system about your transition?
  • How have they responded?
  • If you have not disclosed, what is your plan to ensure you are supported?

Remember also that administration at your clinic will be utilizing your information to contact you, leave voicemails, send you mail, and send out referrals about you to other clinicians. You can talk to your provider about ways to do this respectfully and safely for your current situation.

You can also ask to be referred to the services listed below if you feel they will be beneficial to you.

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